Negative effects of stress! whew!

Stress is the "wear and tear" our bodies experience as we adjust to our continually changing environment; it has physical and emotional effects on us and can create positive or negative feelings. As a positive influence, stress can help compel us to action; it can result in a new awareness and an exciting new perspective. As a negative influence, it can result in feelings of distrust, rejection, anger, and depression, which in turn can lead to health problems such as headaches, upset stomach, rashes, insomnia, ulcers, high blood pressure, heart disease, and stroke.

Negative Effects of Stress:


In prehistoric times, the physical changes in response to stress were an essential adaptation for meeting natural threats. Even in the modern world, the stress response can be an asset for raising levels of performance during critical events such as a sports activity, an important meeting, or in situations of actual danger or crisis. If stress becomes persistent and low-level, however, all parts of the body's stress apparatus (the brain, heart, lungs, vessels, and muscles) become chronically over- or under-activated. This may produce physical or psychologic damage over time. Acute stress can also be harmful in certain situations.

Stress-related conditions that are most likely to produce negative physical effects include:

1. An accumulation of persistent stressful situations, particularly those that a person cannot easily control (for example, high-pressured work plus an unhappy relationship).

2. Persistent stress following a severe acute response to a traumatic event (such as an automobile accident).

3. An inefficient or insufficient relaxation response.

4. Acute stress in people with serious illness, such as heart disease.

Relieving Stress with a Stress Ball!
Stress balls are wonderful for relieving tension and pent up frustration. Many people will find that when they are going through a period of stress they feel the need to do something with their hands.

For example some people play with the loose change in their pockets while others make patterns and shapes with their fingers or tap them rhythmically on the tabletop.

Stress balls are a cheap alternative to the incessant hand movements that some people find annoying. They can be squeezed over and over again until you feel your nerves calming down because most are made from materials that regain their original shape when they are not being squeezed.

So what are you waiting for? We urge you to find out more about how Stress Balls can benefit you today! 

 

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Flight Attendant Hairstyle

HAIR BUN TUTORIAL
•Great tutorial for aspiring FAs.
 

CABIN CREW REQUIREMENTS

Hong Kong Express Airways Requirement

Minimum 5 years’ experience in a management position in airline, hotel or related service industry. Previous cabin crew experience will be an advantage.
Post secondary education, preferably with a degree in tourism, hotel management or business administration.
Knowledge of the HKCAD cabin crew complement, training and testing requirements is preferable.
Proven ability to coach, motivate and lead.

Air New Zealand’s Requirement

Air New Zealand is New Zealand’s National carrier currently operating direct flights from Auckland to both Shanghai and Beijing. Air New Zealand is looking to recruit additional Chinese Flight Attendants who will operate out of Shanghai’s Pudong Airport. Successful applicants will be based in Shanghai.
We need talented, responsible and service oriented crew who can provide.


Viva Macau’s Requirement

Job Description:
Responsible for cabin crew performance & development including on-the-job coaching, developing and conducting performance appraisal and, facilitating career progression activities
Managing day-to-day cabin crew operations including briefing, station information, flight changes, crew welfare and other operational arrangements
Updating station, hotel and crew allowance information, and working closely with relevant parties to update operations manuals, safety etc.

BA Asia’s Requirement

F.5 or secondary / high school graduate.
Fluent in reading and speaking English and Mandarin. Candidates with Cantonese or other foreign languages proficiency would be an advantage.
A matured individual whom are able to work independently. Ready to take-up challenges and extra works.
Good product knowledge including Food & Beverage. Ability to plan, organize and manage galley.

Nippon Airways Requirement

Age – Male and Female between 20 to 28 years old (with 12 Oct ‘08 as referrence point)
Education – High school and above
Language – Good in English (standard equivalent to CET 4). Knowing Japanese will be an advantage
Height – 160cm and above
Eyesight – Contact len is acceptable
Health – No major sickness and fit to work.

Ethihad’s Requirement

Inter-Excel Advisory Sdn Bhd is a Private Limited company based in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. We are the pioneer airline training and placement centre in Asia with proven track record. (Excel group of companies is established since 1996).
Other than providing flight attendant preparatory course, Inter-Excel also specializes in outsourcing career opportunities in the aviation industry.

Kingfisher Airlines Requirement

Kingfisher Airlines-the only domestic airline in the world to be awarded the Skytrax 5-star rating is now international. And, we are looking for people to fly us even higher. Kingfisher Airlines is a part of the UB Group-a USD 4 billion conglomerate, with market leadership status across diverse businesses.
Kingfisher Airlines took to the Indian.

Cathay Pacific’s Requirement

You must be educated to GCSE standard or equivalent with passes in English and Maths;
You must be entitled to live and work in the United Kingdom;
You must be 18 or above and have a minimum arm reach of 208cm;
You must be physically fit and able to pass a medical assessment;
The job will involve continuous contact.

Qanta’s Requirement

As a Flight Attendant with QantasLink, you will be flying on the latest in Dash 8 turboprop aircraft and play a significant role in our customer’s journey. You will operate as either a solo Flight Attendant or as a member of a two person team in the cabin.

Jetstar’s Requirement

Successful applicants will be offered:
• A competitive salary with additional allowance when away from home.
• A career in aviation within a growing international airline.
• The opportunity to make new friends, have fun and enjoy job satisfaction.
• Generous travel benefits and the opportunity to fly away on your days off.
Minimum requirements are:
• Singapore national or Permanent Resident

Malaysia Airlines Requirement

-Malaysian citizen aged between 18 and 30 years
-Passed SPM or an equivalent qualification recognised by the Malaysian
Goverment with a Pass in Bahasa Malaysia,English,Mathematics and any
other 3 subjects taken in one sitting
-Min Height: Male: 165cm , Female: 157cm
Please bring along letter of application,resume,original and certified true copies of academics certificates,
IC and a recent passport size photograph.


JAL’s Requirement

People, place, hospitality and cultures. If these are your passion, a challanging and rewarding career waits you as a Cabin Attendant with Japan Airlines. Performing the role of a service professional, you will be trained in the fine art of Japanese hospitality that only we know best.

Air Phoenix’s Requirement

Qualification :
- Male / Femaie , Thai Nationality.
- Minimum 22 years old.
- Minimum 160 cms for height.
- University graduate.
- Able to swim at least 50 meters non stop.
- Excellent communication skill in English Minimum TOEIC score of 550 achieved
within the past 2 years.
- Exempted form military service for male.

AirAsia’s Requirement


Male & Female (Malaysian)
SPM with credit in English and Bahasa Malaysia or equivalent
Age: between 20 and 30 years old
Male: Height minimum 170cm, maximum 183 cm barefoot
Female: Height minimum 157cm, maximum 170cm barefoot
Eyesight: 6/9
Good communicational skills
Happy, fun personality
Fluent Spoken English and Bahasa Malaysia
1 recent colour passport size photograph
1 recent colour full body photograph (post card size).

Gulf Air’s Requirement

Have a successful career history in delivering the highest quality of customer service which can be transferred into our award winning First, Business and Economy Class cabins
Display strong interpersonal and communication skills that reflect genuine cultural sensitivities and appreciation
Have excellent personal presentation and grooming standards that will reflect and complement the Gulf Air brand


Jetstar Airways Requirement

•At least 2 years of experience in customer service preferably from the hospitality, retail or food & beverage industries.
•Minimum N or O-Level
•You will need to have excellent communication skills with a strong command of the English language. Ability to speak one other Asian language will be highly regarded.

Tiger Airways Requirement

•Minimum height of 1.58m
•Minimum age of 18 years
•Minimum four N-levels with good command of written and spoken English
•Ability to speak second language an advantage
•Good communication and sales skills
•Medically fit to meet aircrew requirements
•Able to swim a minimum of 50m unaided

Jet Airway’s Requirement

Experienced Cabin Crew (Male/Female) with minimum one year of flying experience with a leading international carrier.

Etihad Airway’s Requirement

• Minimum age 20 years
• Weight proportionate to height
• Educated to a minimum level of accredited secondary education or equivalent.
• Must have a high standard of English; verbal, written and comprehension. Fluency in another language is an advantage.
• Medically fit to meet regulatory requirements.
•Ability to swim at least 25m unaided in open water.

Qatar Airway’s Requirement

•Minimum age of 20 years
•Minimum arm reach of 212cms (on tip toes)
•Minimum high school education/ O levels, with fluency in written and spoken English (ability to speak another language is an asset)
•An excellent level of health and fitness
•A willingness to relocate to Doha, Qatar
•Ideally, having an outgoing personality with good interpersonal skills.


(Source: The Fabulous Life Of A Flight Attendant)
 

Female Flight Attendants / Cabin Crew (SAUDIA)


Position:Female Flight Attendants / Cabin Crew (SAUDIA)
Job Category:Airline, Travel & Tourism
Principal:Saudi Arabian Airlines (SAUDIA)
Work Location:Jeddah , Saudi Arabia
Date Posted:Jun 09, 2011
Job DetailsQualifications:
  • Must be female
  • 22 to 30 years old
  • High school graduate
  • Height between 160 cm and 180 cm with proportional weight
  • Fluency in written and spoken English
  • One whole body picture (size 4R wearing business attire – corporate coat over blouse & knee-level skirt / hair tied and pulled away from face), light-blue background taken by a professional photographer and one piece passport size photograph.
All applicants must apply in person for pre-screening at the IPAMS Main Office, 1455 Leon Guinto Sr. St., Malate, Manila (View Map)


Please also come in proper business attire - corporate coat over blouse & knee-level skirt / hair tied and pulled away from face


Closing date of application is on July 15, 2011 (Friday). Final interview is on mid of July 2011
 

Qatar Airways: OPEN DAY RECRUITMENT (Manila) ---SEE YOU!!!


Cabin Crew Recruitment in Manila,Philippines
July 23, 2011 @ Diamond Hotel


To be considered for this opportunity, you need to meet the following:
· Minimum age of 21 years
· Minimum arm reach of 212 cms (on tip toes)
· Minimum high school education/ O levels, with fluency in written and spoken English (ability to speak other languages is an asset)
· An excellent level of health and fitness
· A willingness to relocate to Doha, Qatar
· An outgoing personality, good interpersonal skills and the ability to work in a multi-national team environment


· The dress code for the photographs is as follows:
                     Females:    Business suit with knee-length skirt
                     Hair must be neat and tied back if long
                     Males:         Business suit, shirt and tie
   (Photo Format:  Stand facing the camera, with one foot slightly forward, hands relaxed by
the sides and a warm open smile)

Open-Day CV Submission Day: MALE & FEMALE
July 23, 2011 (Saturday)
MANILA DIAMOND HOTEL
Roxas Boulevard cor. Dr. J. Quintos Street Manila, Philippines
0900-1200 hrs only

Assessment Day: (Shortlisted candidates only - NO WALK-IN PLEASE)
July 24 - 25, 2011 (Sun - Mon)
MANILA DIAMOND HOTEL

Final Interview: (Shortlisted candidates only - NO WALK-IN PLEASE)
July 26 - 27, 2011 (Tue - Wed) 

 

Signs of a Troubled Relationship

Anyone who's been in a long term relationship will tell you there are rough periods, and most people, when they're honest, will admit to doubts along the way. But sometimes we don't know how to assess, "Just how bad is it?" Here's a list of symptoms that suggest a relationship is in trouble. The more symptoms you think are true for you and/or your partner, the more likely your relationship is in need of some help. If you have three to five checked off, you probably need a tune-up. More than five, it's time to consider more serious therapy, either alone or with your partner, or in some cases, both. 

Below this list is another one, "Signs of Severe Relationship Problems." 


You feel worse around your partner than you do when you're on your own. 

Your self-esteem has plummeted since you've been together. 

Either you or your partner, or both of you, are dishonest with each other. 

You often feel hurt by how you are treated by your partner, instead of feeling good while being together. 

You complain frequently about your relationship to others. 

One or both of you have become frequently critical of each other. 

You are unable to approach your partner with your concerns in a reasonable way, without exploding in anger or using passive aggressive (sarcastic, outwardly compliant but inwardly defiant) behavior. Or you expect that any confrontation will only result in an unproductive fight with no change in the situation. You feel you must walk on eggshells most of the time. 

Most if not all of the issues that come up between you remain unresolved, even when you do try to sort them out together. Therefore, one or both of you often take a "why bother?" attitude about dealing with issues. This is different from "choosing your battles," because even important issues remain unresolved and "go underground." 

You lose your enthusiasm about life, and have given up most of your hobbies, friends, or interests that were important to you before getting into the relationship. Instead you are consumed about the difficulties you are having in your relationship. 

You no longer trust your mate. This one is tricky, because some of us have trust issues, and find it hard to trust anyone. You may need help in exploring this with people who know you (and possibly your partner) well. Of course, sometimes the doubts turn out to be warranted. 

Little things about your relationship bother you and you can't let them go. 

You find yourself more drawn to priorities outside the relationship than spending time together. 

Your sex life has dwindled down to very infrequent or none at all, and at least one of you is unhappy about it. 

One or both partners have become closer to someone else than with each other. This can be an emotional affair, or it can even be a friend, sibling, parent, or even one of the children. Obviously the most destructive of these is if there is an actual affair. Online relationships are just as destructive as if they were in person. 

You find yourself reverting to behaviors that take you away from your partner that are not likely to support a healthy lifestyle: drinking too much, spending too much time zoning out with electronics – computer, video games, TV; escaping into your work; finding more satisfaction in singular sex (pornography, escapist fantasies, etc.) than with your partner.



Did you answer Yes to three or more symptoms?

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Signs of Severe Relationship Problems

If you are experiencing any of these symptoms, it is time to address them as soon as possible. It is usually very difficult to address these problems on your own, and getting help, or in certain cases getting out, if anyone is being abused by the relationship, including the children, is advisable.

You are afraid of your partner, because you've learned to expect an angry response that comes with name-calling, crude or abusive insults, or fits of rage.

You no longer speak to each other beyond the very basic necessities of shared living space.

One or both of you use indirect, passive-aggressive means to "get to" the other, and you often have the feeling that you've been punched in the stomach but don't know why.

You or your partner spend nights away from the home without calling to let the partner know where they are or when they'll be home. A lesser version of this, but still damaging to the relationship, occurs when one or both partners frequently stay out partying with others without their partner until very late.

Any incidence of domestic violence, including throwing objects, shoving, hitting, kicking, biting, or physical aggression against the other person. "Lesser" versions of this, but still very destructive, occur with violence against pets, or threats of violence against any living being. Still of concern is when one or both partners throw objects at walls, break things in the house, or otherwise destroy property.

Any incidence of threatening the other partner, suggesting they'll hurt you (or you'll hurt them) directly or by hurting themselves. (Some threats of suicide are thinly veiled attempts to make their partner feel so guilty that they become afraid of saying or doing anything that might upset their partner, such as leave the relationship.)

One or both partners use and abuse recreational drugs, including alcohol, on a regular basis, to the extent that it disrupts the relationship. This is the individuals issue and may not be an indication that the relationship is in trouble – the person is in trouble, and their drinking/using will very negatively affect the relationship.

One or both partners are using their children to hurt their partner, or using them to send messages back and forth to their partner.

When a couple has this much distress in their lives, people might wonder why do they stay together? But there are many ways a couple feels locked in, primarily because of children and finances. Sometimes there is a real threat that if one partner makes any move to leave, the other partner will actually try to harm them in some way. These are highly abusive situations which are beyond the need of therapy, and a partner may need to use local resources of a safe house from domestic violence. 
 

Coping With Stress, Its Effects On Your Skin And Health, And Turning Back The Clock

Stress comes in many forms, workplace stress, family stress, grief over loss of a loved one, etc... Some can be avoided, but as we know, many cannot. Some people handle stress better than others, and some even thrive onit.Regardless, stress takes its toll. 

Stress has been proven to rid your body of many essential vitamins and minerals. Particularly vitamins C, E, and B. This leads to lethargy, lower focussed mental activities (clinically stress causes more erratic brain activity and a reduction in short term and long term memory), drying out and aging of the skin (in some), and in others a increase in the sebaceous gland activity - which usually brings postules, acne, and rosacea - which all bring more stress as we then become more entangled in how others view our physical appearance. 


We cannot stop all stress, but we can take steps to stop or limit its toll on our skin and body. Take a full vitamin suplament every day. Eat a well balanced diet - especially fish meat like salmon (high in omega 3's which is proven to increase brain function and cellular activity, but it also is proven to reduce the aging process of the skin and make cuts and bruises heal faster). Eat more raw fruits and vegetables - atleast 5 servings per day - you will see a notable difference in 4-6 weeks and you will feel better (along with better colon health.


Exercise more often. Aerobic exercise has been proven to release powerful hormones that actually counteract the harmful chemicals and results of stress as it will also improve your bodys abilities to cope with oxidants.

I can't say enough about meditation and prayer. Study after study have proven a reduction in every skin and body malody even cancer symptoms from people that pray and meditate daily. Take 20 minutes every day and do this you will also live longer.

The latest rage is skin peels for a quick fix. Skin peels will slough off the top layers of skin and reveal fresher, cleaner skin. The most effective are TCA peels and phenol peels (phenol peels are dangerous and should only be performed by a licensed plastic surgeon). TCA, trichloroacetic acid, is a medium depth skin peel that works on the most skin ailments - aging skin, sun damage, even has been proven to treat and cure acne. No other skin peel can safely do all that a TCA peel can.

So there you have it - clear, younger skin in 500 words. Great advice to follow and don't forget to always run anything new by your doctor. They are licensed for a reason and know whats best for you.  
 

Choosing and Using Your Lipstick

Lipstick, in various forms, has been around for about 5000 years as it is the easiest way to add an instant splash of colour and give focus to your face. The main problem though, is that there is no perfect colour that suits everyone. There are no perfect shades, brands or formulas but these guidelines can help any woman to express her mood or personality as she chooses the lipstick that is right for her. 

Sheer lipsticks: are more universal than opaque lipsticks and are more flattering as they allow your own lip colour to be seen underneath. They do not last as long as some other formulas although they are very moisturising and easy to wear. A happy medium can be found in the cream lipsticks but as these are more opaque you will find yourself having to be more discerning when choosing your colours. 

Shimmer lipsticks: last for longer than sheer formulations and can flatter the wearer of any age, unlike the shimmery eye shadows or blushers. Due to the light reflecting qualities, lips will look fuller but be warned that shimmer formulations look ghastly on dry or chapped lips. 

Matte lipsticks: are the formulas that last for longer than any other and are a good selection to make bold statements with. The main problem with this type of lipstick is that they dry the lips out quite quickly and as such should not really be worn if you have dry or chapped lips already. 


Lip colours can be found in many styles of applicator but by far the most popular are the ones that come in a stick in bullet shaped holders. As lips are quite sensitive to the sun, the lipstick formulations that have built-in sunscreens are very useful. Lip-gloss can be used to add an attractive gleam to your lips when used on its own, or to catch the light if applied over your normal lipstick. 

If you want to mark an outline to your lips before applying lipstick then a lip liner is the best method (this also helps to stop 'bleeding') and is designed for just this purpose. For a darker matte effect just apply a lip liner over the whole of your lip area. A word of caution if you do decide to use this method though is that you may need to apply a lip salve over the top to avoid drying out your lips. 

Choosing a Colour: 

There are many traditions that help in the selection of lipstick colours. Some of these say that you should choose rich, deep colours such as burgundy or plum reds in winter and lighter, more pastel tones such as pinks or lavenders in spring. Summer months herald the need for sheer or glossy formulations and autumn is the time for brown-based earthy colours. All this said, lipsticks are used as an expression of yourself so you don't have to follow tradition if you don't want to – go ahead and experiment. 

Colour Guidelines: 

People with a fair complexion will find that a small amount of colour will go a long way. Over the top, bright colours will look a mess so stick to nudes, beige tones, light corals or light pinks. Sheer formulas prove to be the most flattering here.


Complexions with medium colours are best suited to brown based mauves or sheer berry types of coloured lipsticks in a cream formula. 
Reds, especially those with golden undertones rather than blue, are the best and most suited colours of lipstick for people with whitish complexions. Also, pink shimmers can look good too with both colour schemes working well in almost any formula. 

The best colours to use for your lipstick if your complexion is darker are rich and deep shades such as burgundy, chocolate or plum which will look great in any formula. 

Lipstick Application: 

Using a moisturiser over your lips before applying the lipstick will usually ensure that the best end result is achieved. The lip surface should then be primed with a foundation making sure that every tiny crack and crevice is covered. A make-up sponge is the best way to accomplish this. 

Then using your normal face powder, apply a light dusting on top of the foundation, which will help your lipstick stay in place for longer. 

Next, draw an outline around your lips using a lip pencil, which has been warmed slightly in the palm of your hand. You may find that steadying your hand by resting your elbow on a firm, flat surface helps when doing this. 

The Cupid's bow on the upper lip should be your starting point when drawing your lip outline, followed by neatly outlining your lower lip. 

Finish off the edges of the outline on your upper lip and then fill in the outlined areas with lipstick, preferably using a lip brush for accuracy, as you will need to make sure that every tiny crevice is covered. Brush the colour into the corners of your lips by opening your mouth, which will expose the corners for easy reach. 

To help your lipstick last longer and give your lips an attractive, semi-matte finish, you should blot over the surface gently with a tissue. 

Tips and Tricks: 

If there is a difference in proportion or volume to your mouth, then the upper lip will normally appear to be thinner than the bottom one. The bottom lip is generally considered to be the point of reference when trying to make sure the contours of both lips are balanced therefore outlining of the upper lip must be done. With this in mind it should be said that when you pencil out the upper lip, make sure that it equals in proportion, from the pointed side of the Cupid's bow to the centre slit of the mouth, the width of the bottom lip. The shape you give to your Cupid's bow is what expresses your mood or personality at the time. If you make it more rounded then you will give a fuller, more sensual smile while on the other hand a pointed, more angular one shows a confident, outgoing personality.